Please Yourself Book Club is a safe and accessible meet up for curious vulva owners of all genders to discuss self-pleasure and sexuality.

Our mission: is to inspire and empower sexual liberation through the love of books and the power of community. 

Tone: Healing & feeling focused. Trauma informed. 

Who: Curious queers and femmes (vulva owners) ready to take pleasure into their own hands and have a safe, honest conversation around self-pleasure, sexuality and shame.

Where: Brunswick.

When: Every 6 weeks. On Tuesday nights.

Event Size: Capped at 25 - 30 ppl.

Cost: $20 or $50 including book

All books available for purchase with ticket or via the Owner Operator website from 2/5/23. 

Book Club Program 

02/05 | Please yourself - Launch Party FREE EVENT!! RSVP essential.

13/06 | Start your practice - Slow pleasure by Euphemia Russel

25/07 | Science of sex - Come as you are by Emily Nagoski

05/09 | Grief & trauma - My body keeps your score by Lucia Osborne-Crowley

17/10 | Pleasure politics -  Pleasure Politics by Adrienne Maree Brown

28/11 | Exploring your desires - Perv by Jesse Bering

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Introducing Please Yourself Book Club, for curious vulva owners. A safe and inclusive meet up to talk about self-pleasure and sexuality!

Where: Brunswick/Belleke bek (Wurundjeri Land)

When: Every 6 weeks. On Tuesday nights.

Event Size: Capped at 25 - 30 ppl.

Cost: $20 + booking fees.

All books will be made available for purchase with ticket.

Who: Curious vulva owners of all genders, who are ready to have a safe, honest conversation around self-pleasure, sexuality and shame.

Book Club Program

13/06 | Start your practice - Slow Pleasure by Euphemia Russel

25/07 | Science of sex - Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

05/09 | Grief & trauma - My Body Keeps Your Secrets by Lucia Osborne-Crowley

17/10 | Pleasure Politics -  Pleasure Politics by Adrienne Maree Brown

28/11 | Exploring your desires - Perv by Jesse Bering

2024 events cumming soon!

Your Facilitators

Tee Ritchey(she/they)

Director of Owner Operator, mental health first aid and trauma trained, sexual abuse & assault survivor and advocate, neurospicy, experienced facilitator and self-professed dork.

Sam Jones (all pronouns welcome)

Best known as the creator of Smut Buttons, where she brings together her extensive work history in the sex industry and personal experiences of mental illness to write informative and entertaining content. Sam has been named one of Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superheroes and is a cast member of OMGyes. 

We're both so excited for this and can't wait for you to join us!

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